Let's start outside the car. Open the door for her the first time, but never after that. They'll think you watch too many etiquette videos. I believe in the old expression, “When a man opens a car door for a woman, it's either a brand new car, or a brand new woman.” Unless you want to look like Greg Brady in his dad's car, don't overdo opening the door-it even makes them uncomfortable. A guy that does this all the time is hiding something. You're her date, not a valet.
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If you're A Player, you travel occasionally by plane. You may go to Vegas for a weekend, Chicago for the big convention, or to Kansas to visit Auntie Em. A Player knows no boundaries and always has their antennae extended for the next opportunity. If opportunities arise anywhere, you must be prepared everywhere. (more…)